Sunday, September 1, 2013

Radical Hospitality


Proper 17C- RCL                               September 1, 2013


On one occasion when Jesus was going to the house of a leader of the Pharisees to eat a meal on the sabbath, they were watching him closely.
When he noticed how the guests chose the places of honor, he told them a parable. "When you are invited by someone to a wedding banquet, do not sit down at the place of honor, in case someone more distinguished than you has been invited by your host; and the host who invited both of you may come and say to you, `Give this person your place,' and then in disgrace you would start to take the lowest place. But when you are invited, go and sit down at the lowest place, so that when your host comes, he may say to you, `Friend, move up higher'; then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at the table with you. For all who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted."
He said also to the one who had invited him, "When you give a luncheon or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or rich neighbors, in case they may invite you in return, and you would be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind. And you will be blessed, because they cannot repay you, for you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous."

On one level our Epistle and Gospel lessons talk about hospitality and I think we could do well to explore how important hospitality was to first century Jews – and Christians.  Perhaps what we don’t fully grasp in the gospel lesson is the radical nature of what Jesus is asking.  On the other hand I think there is still a part of us that does get the radical nature of this reading and would rather pretend that Jesus is talking in metaphors and hyperbole and not actually instructing us to take the lowest seat or invite the untouchables to dinner. 

I find it a little unfortunate that our reading today leaves out 6 verses of Luke as I think it helps put the tension into the scene. It is important to put these parables into some context.  This is another story of Jesus doing things on the sabbath and the Pharisees trying to see if he is going to break the sabbath rules – yet again.  Eating a sabbath banquet was not breaking the rules.  All of the food was prepared before the sabbath so no work was done to prepare the food on the sabbath.   

So why were the Pharisees watching Jesus in verse one?  Because in verses 2 – 7 Jesus breaks sabbath rules and heals a lame man.  “Just then, in front of him, there was a man who had dropsy. And Jesus asked the lawyers and Pharisees, ‘Is it lawful to cure people on the sabbath, or not?’ But they were silent. So Jesus took him and healed him, and sent him away. Then he said to them, ‘If one of you has a child or an ox that has fallen into a well, will you not immediately pull it out on a sabbath day?’ And they could not reply to this.”

Healing was work and Jesus in performing the sabbath healing is trying to get people to understand that the sabbath is about giving thanks to God – and healing someone actually gives praise to God’s creation and to God so it really is ok!  So it is with this act of defiance to a strict keeping of the sabbath that is swirling around the room when Jesus goes into teaching mode and we hear the parable of the seats and the parable of the guests.  

This scene of people jockeying to get the best seats is so familiar.  We all are guilty of it.  We come to an event – or a banquet - early to get the best seat.  We want to be close to the entertainment – or a seat close to the head table at a wedding.  I saw it just last weekend when I attended the wedding of my niece in Bend.  And I have to plead guilty in reserving a seat at a table very near the head table.  After all who wants to sit at the back where you can’t see the bride and groom?  

Or looking back to my school days – and I am not talking about my college days but remembering my high school days back when dinosaurs roamed the earth!  Remember the cafeteria?  How the popular people all sat together?  If you – like me – were not so popular you didn’t dare try to sit at their table.  It just wasn’t done.  If you did you would be humiliated.  And how rare it was for one of the popular people to come sit at the table with the nerds and the geeks?  Sitcoms still use this scenario. 

And what about who we invite to our parties?  Society still obsesses about getting invited to the right party and inviting the right people to our parties!  I don’t know too many people who will invite people to their parties without regard as to who they are or without an eye to have some reciprocal invitation some time in the future.  I did have a dear friend in the church – Nell who did invite everyone to the ranch.  Every time she would meet someone she would say “you must visit me at the ranch” and she was not just making nice – she meant it!  When I would go to the ranch I was just as likely to run into someone from the Haight-Ashbury as I was to run into a diplomat from another country – all were truly welcome.  But people like Nell are – unfortunately – rare!  

Not much has changed in the 2000 plus years since Jesus taught these parables.  If we are really willing to look at our actions and the actions of our society these words of Jesus are still as radical and biting today as they were then. Jesus is telling us that we should not be jockeying for the best seats at the banquet.  We should not be so sure of our status – that God sees status differently than we do.  God does not see the fine clothes and the fine house as a measure of our worth.  The measure of our worth is how we work to help bring a radical new order to society.  We are called to show love to all of God’s creation.  To build up people rather than tear them down.  We are not to worry about who we invite to our banquets for it is those who we think will not be able to return the favor that may well give us greater rewards than we might ever get.  

 But this is not easy.  Even at our churches how easy is it for us to invite everyone to the banquet?  I think we do a pretty good job here at St. Paul’s in inviting anyone who comes through our doors to join us both in the foretaste of the heavenly banquet that is the Eucharist and inviting people to eat with us at coffee hours.  But how much are we really doing to invite people into our church?  Can we do more to reach out into our community and to those who are frequently uninvited by the rest of society?  How do we reach out to people who think that a fortress-like stone building like ours is a place where they would not be welcomed?  How do we let people who the church has historically marginalized know that they really are welcome here – and not just as visitors but as full members who can and should help mold who we are?  How do we let people know that you can have questions and doubts about God and be faithful members of our community?  

Radical welcome is not easy!  I struggle with how we can really open our doors – and more importantly our hearts - to those who think that our table is only open to the cool people and the wealthy people.  I wish I had the answers.  But it is not one person with the answers who is going to be able to make a difference.  We all have to want to reach out and show God’s radical hospitality to the hungry and the hurting.  At times we will have to let go of the neat and the predictable and let God break into our lives.  

When we let the Holy Spirit into our lives it can be messy.  She can lead us to invite those who cannot repay us to the banquet.  The Holy Spirit will blow open the doors of our institutions and of our hearts and that can be very scary.  But as our lesson from Hebrews said today “Let mutual love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by doing that some have entertained angels without knowing it.”  I would go even further and say that by showing hospitality to strangers we will at times entertain God without knowing it.  Indeed I have had some of my most powerful encounters with God through people that most would try to ignore.  Being given a big bear hug after giving one of our members, who some might want to avoid  - communion has been a glimpse into the radical love of God. 
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50 years ago black people in many parts of our country where second class citizens at best.  They were relegated to the back of the bus.  They were told to drink out of separate water fountains than white people.  They were given menial jobs and rarely given the seats of honor at the banquet.  It was in this context that the March on Washington took place 50 years ago this past week.  It was in this context that Martin Luther King Jr. gave his famous speech.  Where he articulated a dream that all people – regardless of color or economic status would be treated fairly and equitably.  That all would be equal.  That dream of Martin Luther King is also the dream of God.  That all will be equally loved and have equal access in our society.  Much of our society has come a long way in the last 50 years.  Many of the repressive laws that were on the books have been repealed and equal access to jobs is – at least in theory – the law of the land.  

Unfortunately Martin’s dream is still just a dream for many.  We still have too many people who cannot get jobs.  We still have too many people in this country, and in this town, who go hungry and do not have safe housing. 
 
On Tuesday Trinity Cathedral is sponsoring a pilgrimage – or dare I say march –to city hall to call on our leaders to include an affordable housing element in their general plans – which they are starting to update.  If you can participate you are invited to gather at Trinity Cathedral at 3:30 to walk to City Hall – or you can meet them at City hall at 5:30.
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We are invited today – just as Jesus called his followers 2000 plus years ago to open our hearts and open our doors to everyone.  To turn upside down societal expectations and societal norms of who is in and who is out.  We are called to practice radical hospitality.  How are we going to do that?  How are we – as individuals and as a church – going to bring God’s radical dream of Love to our world?  Amen.

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