Saturday, October 14, 2017

Rules or Community Building?

Sermon for September 18, 2017

Proper 18A – RCL – Track 1



Jesus said, “If another member of the church sins against you, go and point out the fault when the two of you are alone. If the member listens to you, you have regained that one. But if you are not listened to, take one or two others along with you, so that every word may be confirmed by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If the member refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if the offender refuses to listen even to the church, let such a one be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. Again, truly I tell you, if two of you agree on earth about anything you ask, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them.”

Today’s Gospel reading is hard.  Especially ff we read it in a very rule centric way.  Then  it seems about how to exclude people.  It seems like a way to remove people from the community of God.  And to tell you the truth I was initially dismayed when I read it this week.  This has been a good week and a hard week at the same time.  Good because Friday was my last day in my office and my retirement starts on Wednesday.  Bad because we have had to invoke a health care directive for a friend and make care decisions – and sometimes dealing with healthcare issues can be trying.   So I really did not want a hard gospel reading today.

David Lose, a preacher I follow helped put this in perspective for me.  He asks if this is about rules or about community.  Is this about excluding folks or finding ways to include.  Perhaps this set of “rules” is about community building and not about expulsion.  And perhaps it is our own sin that allows us to read this as a neat little rule-book on getting rid of people who we don’t like.

After reading what comes before in Matthew’s Gospel and what comes after it I really do not think it is right to read it as a way to exclude.   We need to read it as a way to include.  The passage just before this in Mathew we hear Jesus saying that there is joy in heaven when a lost soul is found and just after this passage Jesus blows Peter’s mind – again! – by telling him that we need to forgive people not once, not twice not seven times but 70 times seven times.  In other words our work is one of forgiveness and not judgment.

So how can we unpack this gospel as one that builds up community?  One of the sins that we as a society have is that of talking about people, both individually or as groups, instead of talking directly to them.  We are quick to react to a Facebook post or a rumor about someone and judge that person as being evil or incompetent, or lazy.  It is far too easy to demonize people we don’t talk to.  So perhaps this set of rules is a command to actually approach and talk to someone rather than judge them behind their backs.  And if we have trouble talking to them then we should bring some folks with us.  Not to gang up on them but to help us understand as a community a behavior that seems out of place.

We don’t know what another person or group of people are going through.  I don’t know all about what causes people to be homeless.  I do know from talking with some of our homeless community that there are many factors including the insane cost of housing in California that put people on the streets.  I do know that people judge people who have been in prison – even if they have fully served their time and are not on parole.  I do know that people with mental health issues are judged by society as if their illness was their own fault.  When instead society is just as culpable for not providing health care – including mental healthcare to our wounded and hurting members. 

So perhaps instead of judging this gospel lesson is about talking to people.  Listening to what is happening in their lives.  Trying to understand what is going on.  Listen before judgment. 

And of course, sometimes we do have to finally draw a line and say that some behavior is unacceptable.  We do have to provide for the safety of others.  But excluding someone should be the exception. 

And if that happens then this lesson says we should treat them as a Gentile and a tax collector.  As an outsider and one who society as a whole despised. Which I actually find funny because who did Jesus hang out with and listen to and work into positions of leadership.  None other than outcasts, sinners, and tax collectors. 

So one way to read this gospel lesson is to talk to people who are bugging us.  Talk to people who have offended us in one way or another.  And if that doesn’t work talk to them in community. If an intervention into the bad behavior doesn’t work. Then what.  Set some ground rules.  Treat them as our neighbors and work to provide ministry to them and forgive them. 

And that is hard work.  As I said it is much easier to post something on Facebook, react to someone else’s post, than it is to talk to the offender.  It is easier for us to categorize people by groups – the homeless, the mentally ill, the GLBT, the democrats, the republicans, etc. than it is to talk to people before we react.

Our society today is extremely reactive.  We react to the divided and polarized nature of our world with vigor and emotionally – and hopefully we are reacting to the policies that exclude and not necessarily to people who are enacting the polices.  Our energy is best spent when we can work to change policies without demonizing the other.  Our energy is best spent when we stand by people who others want to exclude and who society wants to remove.

I personally am fearful for those who could get deported because of a policy decision to end the Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals program or DACA.   Which could see young people who are productive members of society.  Young people who have followed the rules - had background checks, registered with immigrations officials and paid a fee could be expelled. 

These young people are facing an uncertain future and could get deported to their “home” country – a country that is not their home and in fact is likely quite foreign to them.  Not because of who they are individually or actions that they individually have taken but because our society is fearful of foreigners.  I don’t understand it.  It is like some people think all immigrants – and particularly those who have come to this country without permission are terrorists. When in fact many people come to perform jobs that others in this country do not want to perform.  I read this week that central valley grape growers are having to switch to mechanical harvesting because they are having trouble finding labor.  And yet our government has for years refused to acknowledge the realities of this important labor force and find ways to regularize it – to use a perfectly good bureaucratic term. 

This passage really is not about rules for excluding. It is about rules for building up a beloved community.  It is about recognizing that all of us from time to time are prickly and can cause others to be upset.  This is about talking to people and reconciliation.  Jesus tells us that not only is it important for our communities but it is cosmically important too.  When we bind or loose, when we remove people we should remember that God cares.  If we recognize that it is about more than our own feelings, and that God cares and wants nothing more than to build the beloved community here - than perhaps, just perhaps, we will work harder at building community instead of tearing down community.

Both the reading of this text in context with what becomes before – Jesus saying that heaven rejoices at the return of one who was lost, and the next bit which commands us to forgive with radical abundance is summed up by Paul in our Epistle reading today “Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery; You shall not murder; You shall not steal; You shall not covet”; and any other commandment, are summed up in this word, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore, love is the fulfilling of the law.”

Today’s gospel reading is hard.  And it is hard because it takes work to really build up a community.  And it takes more work to fulfill the law and love all of our neighbors – even the outsiders and tax collectors of our own day.  It is hard to build relationships and it takes work.  And sometimes it does even take rules about behavior that will cause us to remove someone for a season. 

If we can truly follow the command to reach out to the lost and to provide radical forgiveness then we can build God’s beloved community here.  And when we build that community we will be able to be change agents in a society that is dearly in need of Love and reconciliation.

Amen.


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